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Saturday, January 29, 2011

20110129办年货


大人的办年货是给家里买很多有的没的,吃的喝的用的。可是我不买这些,我买新衣~
0129,星期六,Eddie跟我一起出发到怡保去买新衣。我们一点多才出发,比预期的出发时间迟了很多,因为有些突发状况。午餐没有吃,饿到半死的我们,第一站先去Ipoh Parade,已经饿得头昏昏了还要转几十圈那个car park,更晕!到了商场,二话不说,先找吃的。我们俩都同意去士林~我吃蚝仔面线,他吃开心便当,另外还点了一份炸鸡排,到最后,有点太撑了。

吃完我们才开始我们的任务~寻找心仪的衣服!我想很多人都跟我一样,趁着这个周末出来逛街。Ipoh Parade超级多人,我很不喜欢这么多人,很挤很吵很乱~又一直闪来闪去怕撞到人。在那里,我走进每一间服装店都是走马看花,就算看到有喜欢的,都不想试,因为是一件超多人,排队都够了。所以几乎每一间都是,什么都没买就出来了。因为一间店就这么小,人却挤得连走路的位都没有。我什么都没有买到,反而他买了一件长裤。教训:以后新年要买衣服都不去商场。

之后,我提议到Jusco后面的boutique看看。去boutique的好处,你只需要跟服装店的staff说明你想要找的款式,然后他就会尽快把你形容的从店内一网打尽,展现在你的面前,你过滤之后,就帮你把每一件挂好在试衣间。你省了很多慢慢挑跟想象的动作和时间~就是那间Estee,在那里每次都能买到喜欢的衣服^^


不知不觉已经是晚上六点九,我约了二姐七点一起吃晚餐。Akamomiji,也是在Estee附近的,一间日本餐厅。这就是我们享用的美食,又是好一段时间没有吃到好料了,托二姐二姐夫的福^^






这个sotong一级棒!很强的鱿鱼味~就是我喜欢那种!!


二姐不想上镜,因为他没有精心打扮,哈哈~


我跟Eddie各买了一件Polo T因为有折扣。


Sticky,我那天在大学梦见这个糖果,但只有One Utama才有的,我以为近期内都不可能吃到,但是但是!昨天竟然让我在Jusco遇见他!于是他就买了一瓶送我~ ~>_<~+我选了Mixed Fruits的,什么口味都吃得到,这是农历新年以兔年为主体的包装哦~


那天的我,五百年没有化妆了~ (☆_☆)

 
Thanks ur belated birthday gift❤


Thursday, January 6, 2011

点算好啊??



说时迟,那时快,终于都到了这个年龄,面对我有点抗拒,以为还有很久很久都不会到来的事情>>>阔别学生生涯,准备向社会迈进。我终于都要独立的~迟或早也要把依赖的性格永远!!!戒掉~ 才发现能够依赖是多么的幸福。

但我准备好迎接以后每一个未知的挑战。我知道会有很多意想不到的事情。朋友告诉我,这个社会很现实很残酷,尤其是刚出来社会的,没有人会宽待你,你会尝试到羞愧,被嘲笑,被利用,被出卖,被消遣等不平之事。真的那么严重?能不能用“习惯就好”来应付这些情况啊~我疑惑,难道我不去犯人,人家会自动来犯我不成?!他说,就是有这种唯恐天下不乱的小人。

听后我都不怎么开心,反而增加了烦恼的事,害怕自己应付不来啦,害怕自己让人家看不顺眼啦,害怕交际能力很有限啦等等~其实听多了反而想的更多,更害怕,更裹足不前。我说,倒不如调整好心理,顺其自然。要真让你遇到这些事情,再见招拆招,人总要经过一些磨练,才会更进步,所谓“升呢”(升level)就是这么一回事咯=P

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

“季梦”教会我的事


其实他的名字叫隽为,而最后为什么沦为“季梦”这名字,那是一场搞笑的误会,而这名子的意思是,小鸡鸡 o_O||| 是的!没有错~

 

他是谁?他是eddie家,他妈妈帮人家顾的小孩,据说从他出生后第二个月就已经抱过来给他们家顾了。而现在已经是迈入第六年了,换句话说,季梦今年(2011)刚刚六岁了。是蜡笔小新的岁数~我不是很常接触小孩,所以一有小孩子在身边,我就会觉得很新鲜。他很喜欢跟我进房间,有一次,他跟着我进来,

季梦:“姐,你在做什么?”
    我:“阿姐要准备冲凉咯~”(在忙着收拾衣服)
季梦:(愣了几秒后杀出一句)“哦,阿姐要冲凉哦!”(然后笑笑出去把门关上)
    我:(。。。)o_O|||

他知道冲凉的事男生要回避?是人小鬼大吗?还是我太低估现在的小孩?还是这个岁数的他们原本就该知道?因为很少接触小孩,所以我真的搞不懂在这样的年龄,他们懂的程度到哪里~


刚开始来的时候,很喜欢跟他玩,因为他很乖。我就在eddie面前称赞这孩子很懂事很乖。eddie冷笑说:“久了你就知道,脾气坏到要死!”我听了还不信,因为我都相信自己看到的事。日子久了才发现,原来听来的事也不一定不可信。

跟他相处几天,他还很乖巧听话不发脾气。但跟他相处久了,他竟然原形毕露,小孩本色一现~吓的我不太敢跟他玩了~他会因为他人无心的一句话,放声大哭,大发脾气,翻脸不认人。

比如说他拿了一样东西过来给你,你说:“我不要,你拿回去放!”他就顿时脸色一变,觉得心被你伤到了,就扁嘴大哭~ 他的发疯三部曲,①扁嘴,②大哭,③跺脚~很眼浅,真的太眼浅~ 


eddie妈妈脾气算好的,有时候被他的无理取闹也搞得大声嘶吼,要他听话,骂他打他~脾气这么好的一个伯母也会被着小魔鬼搞的失去控制,如果那是我,脾气原本就不好,搞不好发疯也成?!

其实季梦的性格那么偏激,脾气这么坏,也不是没有原因的,据说他父母亲也没什么管教这孩子。早上一大早就把他送来这里,晚上七点才又把他接走,公共假日除外。没办法双亲都得工作,而且上有一姐,下有一妹,大人也很难分身,三个孩子都兼顾无不妥~ 长期这样下去,孩子哪能管教得好?现在的小孩很早熟,思想“日新月异”,如没有大人时刻在旁提点,思想也会扭曲。心事没有管道得以宣泄,终日把郁闷藏在心里,小孩也会有忧郁症~

有时候我觉得季梦很可怜,他没有朋友陪他玩,大人又因为怕他的坏脾气,不敢跟他玩的太疯,他就一个人玩着大人不要的东西当玩具,自得其乐。他有一桶“垃圾玩具”,我们说那是垃圾(都是一些不要的空罐,一些坏了的电器),他说那是他的玩具。怪可怜,人家妈妈都没有买他玩具,我们外人能怎么样~


季梦-让我畏惧以后生小孩,因为管教小孩,不懂怎么下手才管用,才会看到成绩。我希望他健康就好,这是最重要的不在话下。可是,我也希望他是家教好的小孩。现在的人,男女平等,夫妻俩都出来工作分担一切,而生下来的孩子很大可能就交给家公家婆,或是像季梦这样寄放在别人家托养。像这样的情况,如果你想要慢慢管教他,栽培他,接触他,了解他,一天有四十八小时再说吧~而且出来社会工作,你有压力,我有压力,自己的情绪都一团糟的时候,还要担心孩子的健康,课业(最基本的)。甚至说要担心他的心智成长的正常不,那不是搞的大人一个头两个大。搞不好顿时产生个念头说,不生还好?!

当然事情有好也有坏,看你怎么看待咯。但我只是把最现实的一面先摊出来想想,问自己够不够成熟面对这一切。如果你跟老公之间有意见分歧的时候,孩子又无理取闹,工作又不顺心时,你该怎么面对?好了,就算其中两样同时发生就好,一次两次可能可以迎刃而解,在多次这样的时候,大人也是人好不好,EQ再高也会有发飙的时候~


虽然这样有起有落,有开心有不开心才叫生活,但有的事情可以计划周详一点,免得后悔莫及。比如说,没有太多时间分身工作和孩子,不要生多,一个就好~觉得没有能力抚养,给不到他们很好的,不要生,二人世界也很好~有时候我会提醒自己,未来并不远,不要想的太梦幻(以后我要给孩子最好的,我要把它管教的很严,我要做superwoman把孩子教好,事业有成,又漂亮的女人~),现实一点会比较好~






Monday, January 3, 2011

我们家新增小宝贝 - Baby Marcus


20101226,期待了很久,我们家baby Marcus终于来到了这个世上。母子平安,可喜可贺~大姐e-mail了很多没有公开的照片给了我们三兄妹,分享这份喜悦。那些照片记载了,在医院大姐的分娩二部曲,之前跟之后。分娩过程也可能有拍摄,可是没有寄给我们或是姐夫太紧张忘了拍?! 哈哈~

在分娩前,从等待,到作痛,大姐的表情可以感染看照片的我,就好像置身在那情况一样,紧张万分。然后照片就跳去分娩之后,大姐抱着刚来到世上的Marcus,妈妈抱着接生护士哭的画面,更是令我热泪盈眶。可想而知,那一刻是多么的激动和感动。






这个角度,像我的大姐,嘴巴跟眼睛,都很像,就是有给我那种感觉~

 

而这一张就是我说的,超像大姐夫的,简直是一个模子般印出来似的。就是皮肤嫩了许多,和没戴眼镜的差别而已~ XD

其实每个角度,每个人看都有不同的感觉,有的人说像爸爸,有的人说像妈妈。但对我们来说,像爸爸还是像妈妈都好,最重要的就是你健康成长就好。无论如何,你都是我们家最疼的宝贝。


Marcus,为了你,大姐受了十级痛楚的煎熬,你一定要健健康康的,快高长大,才乖仔哦~

Sunday, January 2, 2011

COMBO celebration @ OH! Sushi


20101225, Merry Christmas!  
Today I ended up my trip n back to Ipoh. 
(ps: thanks Yuly a bunch for letting me n Cherie tumpang her car back to IPOH) 
My boy came to meet me up there as well.  
Long time no C, I think we're gonna miss each other A LOT!!!❤ 
was so excited in the journey back IPOH. 
But so shiiit, that day was public holiday and everyone came out from their shelter and jammed at outside. Everybody was finding leisure n pleasure
Eddie was jamming on the road while I waiting him at TESCO. 
However KK even worst coz he jammed on the road in front of JJ, Ipoh for about 1 and half hour to get the car inside JJ car park. 
And, Amitabha finally me n my boy met up and we gave each other a passion hug, 
haha~no la~ kidding, 
I quickly asked him take care of my luggage coz I couldn't stand it anymore, 
I wanna go peeeee>< 
I can feel we're happy to c each other, and 
we planned to make 20101225 a memorable and great day for ourselves.  
Our plan was, shop-shop at JJ, have a high tea, go GSC for a movie and 
have a great dinner at night~ 
So, YES, without further ado, we off to JJ and get our GREAT DAY started!!! 


High tea at Secret Recipe, actually nothing to shop and the movie haven got started yet, 
so YES. We have a brownies walnut with ice-cream as our birthday cake, 
Yea we shared a birthday cake~~lol








Dinner time,
we planned to go a restaurant with nice atmosphere and yummy food
to celebrate a COMBO X'mas & birthday 
(me & eddie both in Dec) there as well.
So economic rite?
Anyway it was sweet, juz bcoz wit u~
I think except those who born in rich family, or students' couple most like this.
No luxurious celebration and pressies,
but all come with a truly, pure, wholeheartedness love, this is what I feel priceless...










We had a joyous moment when time spending on each other.

Saturday, January 1, 2011

My surprising X'mas gift ❤


After Pavilion we planned to somewhere else to continue the gathering. Previously, Kenn n Cherie wanted to sing k, but finally changed plan. Dun really remember the reason why changing plan but it's good for me coz I'm not gonna owe ppl too much money I think we'd rather to sit back and have a comfortable chat with frens (with a nice drinks as well, YES! sure thing) So we chose Starbucks to be our next destination.We want a place that not crowded, thus we skipped the Bintang Walk's Starbucks. All the way was full of people, and the atmosphere of x'mas was super strong. Many of them using snow spray to "attack" ppl, I dun really like the way they celebrate x'mas, so I passed by quickly. And then we reached a starbucks "safely", this starbucks located in front of Low Yat plaza. There was much more deviate from the crowd compare to tat one which located at Bintang Walk. We walked in and ordered drinks at the counter, Kenn was collecting the stamps to redeem a 2011 starbucks planner after complete 12 stamps, so he was hungry for the stamps. And I found that the planner is actually very nice so finally I started to collect it too by ordering one more drinks for myself. My new FAV green tea Latte❤

I suggested that to ask for help from the coming unknown-customer(s). And Kenn agreed, thus we wait wait & wait. And yes, customers was coming like non-stop, Kenn have taken the 1st step to approach the customers. He is so brave at tat moment, my mind kept omg-he-really-go-omg-omg, and guess what! He did it successfully. That was the 1st time, when the next customers come, this time were boiz, I  requested Cherie to approach for me. And what a surprising answer, she promised to do so! So the result was in our expectation, when a hot chick approach guys, sure she wil get wat she wants...LOL. 2 stamps!! CLAPS** The progress was going like 2, 3, 4, 5stamps, and finally he left 4 stamps n I left 2 stamps to complete the "competition"~ But Starbucks was going to close. OMG, Are we going to collect it next day, can we get the starbucks planner by tonite?? But the staffs suddenly came to us and ask how many stamps I left empty, I quickly said 2! And he took the card away, Awww!!! He was purposely going to chop the left 2 empty spaces for mey!!!! And I went to the counter quickly n await my coming hand >>>*planner*~hooray~ Kenn felt wan to complete by tat night too, so he begged the staff to chop the left 4 stamps for him~ and YES, the staff said~ haha, so we both got the planner by tat night. Its an awesome x'mas gift^^ because, we did insanely??!!



The face of 囧.


Thanks Kenn, Cherie, Philippians frens(customers also), the starbucks staffs^^ You guys brighten up my X'mas eve^^

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